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Steve's avatar

I stopped drinking fully 19 years ago, was a big binge drinker on the odd social occasion... After an initial period of discomfort at social settings with friends urging you to drink, that soon settled down and people accepted my decision.

I noticed better health within six months, any puffy weight I had went, social occasions didn't require thinking about how much I had, and if I could drive home, I was more relaxed in social settings too (I used to have a drink to loosen up, but found I actually just needed to relax)... and now 19 years have gone by, I think I have spared my liver and body a bonus 19 years of all that stress my binge drinking used to cause. I may very well have done some damage earlier in my youth and ignorance but so far my health has been very good...

This was a great article thank you and I've saved and filed it !

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One thing that isn’t mentioned, and I guess it’s not surprising as the zeitgeist is “what’s in it for me?” but any intoxicant that compromises your personality integrity is a short-changing of your loved ones (and even one drink has an effect, however subtle). Your relationship with them is the conduit through which you can give them the only thing of enduring value that you *can* give them: the gift of love. And love requires first, being attuned to them, and second, balance, subtlety and wise judgment in how you interact with them, all of which the selfishness of intoxication distorts.

This is vital to your children: your selfish intoxication deprives them of you, maybe just a little bit at a time, but it accumulates. If you think that you are somehow “better” when you are intoxicated then you might profitably seek help to overcome the issue that you think you’re improving.

But most of all, intoxication affects your relationship with your Creator because the foundation of your relationship with Universe is love and its projection onto others, which ability is damaged by intoxication of any kind. This projection of love is a life-long process of discipline, learning and self-correction, ultimately leading to self-mastery. Distorting your perceptions, emotions and memories can only wreak havoc with it. Purity of body, mind and spirit are the essence of the realness of your personhood, your key to the transcendence of the animal level of existence. Don’t pollute them with poisons.

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