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CM Maccioli's avatar

Numbers 6 & 7 were the ones. "No matter what the social scale, the same tactics are used". Amen to that. When you are blessed to have an extraordinary family of love, closeness, joy, laughter, commitment, resolve, and empathy to put your family above your own needs and desires, which naturally spills over to others around you, you become a family admired. You know you did well. It fills you with pride.

Amidst 10 people sitting around the multi-generational kitchen table every night, you can imagine the coordination involved to make that meal, clean up afterwards, sweep the floor and leave that kitchen clean as a whistle awaiting the next go-round. I find the adage "There's one in every family" as an excuse to accept abnormal behavior but never call it by it's rightful name. Evil.

If you haven't been exposed to the aforementioned nor have seen the destruction of that family unit by one member, than you will never juxtapose that experience with what is surrounding you today, but easily brush it off to there's one in every family. Blindly by loyalty to family, friends, political parties, medical unprofessionals etc, you say oh no, that just couldn't be.

Exactly. Same parents, same family, same inclusion, same advantages, same rules. But the rules don't pertain to that one person. They're different. As time emerges from that onion a layer is removed, and another, and another until you see the real person and nothing else can describe the inexplicable behavior other than evil.

Someone once said, I think it was Omar Sharif, "Why is the murder of a single person such a monstrous act, while the killings of millions is accepted forthwith?" I think I just described how.

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Kelli's avatar

This one was so timely for me (especially #11) ... THANK YOU for this substack!

Also loved #4 -- developing our own double-speak and laughing at them. The Coffee & Covid substack (full of sarcasm and brilliant double-speak wit) probably saved my sanity the last few years.

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