DeTransition
My understanding of what is being done to children, within the Trans medical cult, is an abstraction. There is knowing and then there is knowing, and I definitely do not know.
Unless you have lived it, what do you really know?
Unless you have felt it, and been it, as a child, as a teen, as a parent, brother, sister and grandparent, what do you really know?
Not much really.
I’m not sure how I came across Walt Heyer, but I’m glad I did.
Walt knows.
He knows more than most ever will.
I approached Walt requesting an interview, knowing that his perspective and insights are extremely rare. I’m so grateful that he agreed.
No matter who you are, caught up in the insane hurricane that is the Dysphoria Industrial Complex, I’m sure that you will connect with some or all of Walt Heyer’s message.
With thanks to Walt Heyer.
Can you take us back to your early childhood and describe the first moments you felt confusion about your gender identity? What role do you believe your family dynamics played in these feelings?
Answer: Confusion started at 3 years of age when my mom was physically abusing me. The confusion increased when @ 4 years of age my grandma made me a purple chiffon dress. At 6 years of age, I only became more confused when my dad disciplined with a hardwood floor plank. That was abusive, I cried a lot. The worst of my childhood came when my uncle Fred (a teenager) begin sexually teasing and molesting me when I was only 8.
You mentioned that your journey towards transitioning began at the age of four. Can you elaborate on how societal and familial influences impacted your perception of gender at such a young age?
Answer: My early childhood life explains how the family impacted me and the perception I had of who I was. Today in hindsight extensive research tells us about the proper term for what I experienced was; “Adverse Childhood Experiences” know as ACEs. Adverse Childhood Experiences (according to research) can alter the brain at the level of where our “Identities are being formed.” I was so traumatized I was unable to understand I needed a trauma therapist. I learned too late the difference between needing treatment for my early life trauma and taking hormones and surgery which are feckless in providing sound effective treatment for childhood trauma and abuse.
Paper Genders: Pulling the Mask Off the Transgender Phenomenon: Heyer, Walt
Paper Genders debunks the glowing promises of gender change surgery and exposes the heart-breaking story of suicide and wrecked lives that the advocates would prefer to keep hidden.
Profoundly clear, well-documented and fair.
Before your transition, you achieved significant milestones, including marriage and a successful career. How did these aspects of your life influence your decision to undergo gender reassignment surgery?
Answer: Well 90% of thousands of people I work with are not homosexual never engaged in homosexuality just heterosexual men with unresolved early childhood distress so marriage is quite common. (Note: Jenner married and had children) What influenced my decision to take hormones and undergo surgery ultimately was the direct result of “gender experts” having no skill or training in providing therapies for treating trauma and/or an abusive childhood, instead they diagnosed me with gender dysphoria and recommended hormones and surgery. The result of their lack of skill has resulted in regrettable outcomes.
You described a turning point when you sought help from a gender identity expert. What was the process like in being diagnosed with gender dysphoria, and how did you feel about the recommendation for hormone therapy and surgery?
Answer: Well, the BIG Mistake is going to a “gender expert.” They are clueless about how to help people, sadly. The truth is nobody “transitions” from one gender to another-- transitioning is pure folklore. The hormones and surgery allowed me to “Identify as transgender female” but in no way did I or has anyone achieved a biological change from one gender to another. That is why “transitioning” is pure folklore. I had the “gender reassignment surgery” only because the “gender experts and therapists” were never trained in providing sound effective treatment for the underlying comorbidity of Adverse Childhood Experiences. The early abuse was responsible for my identity distress, a direct result of trauma from psychological, emotional, sexual, and physical abuse by my family.
Gender, Lies and Suicide: A Whistleblower Speaks Out: Heyer, Walt
In GENDER, LIES AND SUICIDE, Walt Heyer analyzes the issues which fuel the tragedy of transgender suicide and shares selected stories from the many people who write him seeking to undo the tragic consequences from their decision to change genders. Transgenders undergo hormone injections and irreversible surgeries in a desperate effort to feel better. The media and transgender activists claim the radical treatment is successful and regret is rare, yet at the same time, they report that transgenders, even after treatment, are attempting and committing suicide at an alarming rate. Back in 1979, Dr. Charles Ihlenfeld, a close colleague of Dr. Harry Benjamin, the father of the transgender movement in the U.S., reported that 80% of those seeking a sex change should not have one; frequently too many of them committed suicide. GENDER, LIES AND SUICIDE reveals how today, many decades later, the suicides continue.
The decision to undergo gender reassignment surgery is monumental. Can you share your mental and emotional state during the two years leading up to the surgery and immediately afterwards?
Answer: I wanted to make the pain of my childhood go away that all I wanted but the hormones and surgery only caused more pain and confusion. I didn’t want to be the person who was abused.
After living as a transgender woman for eight years, you decided to detransition. What were the key factors or events that led to this decision?
Answer: The key factors leading up to me getting my life back was my surgeon and my therapist testifying in San Mateo California Superior Court that hormones and surgery do not effect a change of gender. Knowing the gender juggernaut was purely a scam I looked toward Jesus Christ who did come and redeemed and restored my sorry life, thank you Jesus.
Perfected with Love: Heyer, Walt
A Transgender's Faith: Heyer, Walt
You've spoken about studying psychology and addiction and discovering a range of comorbid disorders associated with transgender identification. How did this knowledge affect your understanding of your own experiences?
Answer: In my studies at U.C. Santa Cruz I came to understand underlying comorbidities caused my distress, NOT Gender Dysphoria. I required talk therapies not hormones and surgery. As the result of my university studies I confronted my therapist and surgeon that resulted in them admitting no one changes genders.
Your story includes not just personal transformation but also significant relationships. How has your journey affected your relationships, particularly with your spouse and children?
Answer: the relationships with my children have been restored and better than ever.
You have been vocal about the regrets some individuals have after transitioning. Can you discuss the common themes or experiences you've encountered in your interactions with others who have detransitioned?
Answer: The most common theme overwhelmingly has to be Adverse Childhood Experiences such as sexual, emotional and psychological due to trauma and loss of a stable family unit.
In your book "Trans Life Survivors," you share stories from people who regret their gender transition. What inspired you to compile these stories, and what impact do you hope the book will have?
Answer: The book Trans Life Survivors was written to help people see the utter insanity of taking hormones and surgery, period.
Trans Life Survivors: Heyer, Walt
Experience for yourself the raw emotions and “aha” moments from 30 people who were convinced gender change was the answer but came to see it was not. Trans Life Survivors powerfully portrays the human toll inflicted by so-called “gender experts” who push gender transition on people who don’t need it. This one-of-a-kind book is packed with information: - Emails from 30 transgender survivors - The latest research and information - A section for transgender teens and children with first-hand accounts, research and resources - An appendix with resources for parents; people who want to detransition; and anyone who wants to understand the issue. Read in the survivors' own words why living the trans life didn’t work for them and the concerns and challenges they face in going back.
You criticise the role of the American Psychiatric Association in promoting gender transition. What changes would you like to see in the way gender dysphoria is treated and addressed by medical and psychiatric professionals?
Answer: I would like to see them admit it’s not “gender dysphoria” but, the truth just like Dr. Paul Walker and surgeon Stanly Biber testified in the court document, nobody changes gender because of hormone therapies and surgery; that would be a refreshing change, and to offer instead treatment for the underlying comorbidities.
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Articles of Impeachment against Sex Change Surgery: Heyer, Walt
The powerful 55 “articles of impeachment” between the covers of this book detail the harmful and irreversible consequences the social and medical experiment called “sex change” continues to inflict on real people—adults, teenagers, and even children—and why it needs to be reined in.
Your novel "Kid Dakota and the Secret at Grandma's House" is based on a true story. How does this story intersect with your own experiences, and why was it important for you to tell this story?
Answer: The book Kid Dekota was in part my experience and my experience I have found is not unique and readers need to know we all suffered but you can get through and restore your life.
Kid Dakota and the Secret at Grandma's House: Heyer, Walt
Based on an Extraordinary True Story Occasionally, a story comes along which is so extraordinary it begs to be a movie. Kid Dakota and the Secret at Grandma’s House is such a story. In this sensational novel based on a true story, Walt Heyer powerfully places the reader in the life of Kid Dakota in Los Angeles in the 1940s. Secrets, we learn, have consequences when Kid Dakota becomes the unwilling participant in his grandmother’s dark obsession. Dakota tries to shake off Nana’s depraved secret—he marries, becomes a father and achieves spectacular success in his career. But Nana’s decades-old secret holds him in its grip, threatening to turn his life upside-down. The cover depicts a vulnerable, but gutsy, Kid Dakota with his heels firmly planted in the turf. Displaying that same grit throughout his life, Dakota tackles the devastating obstacles that come his way. Kid Dakota shows us how important it is to never give up, no matter what.
Throughout your advocacy, you've faced criticism and censorship. How do you navigate the challenges of sharing your perspective in a highly polarised social and political climate?
Answer: I do not give one minute of my time to what criticism comes my way.
Looking back on your journey, what message do you want to convey to individuals currently experiencing gender dysphoria, and what advice would you offer to their families and loved ones?
Answer: Your struggle with confusion is likely about dysphoria but NOT Gender Dysphoria.
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I wonder whether all these “gender” things are only one huge symptom of quite a different story.
As far back as I can remember, some 60 years ago, we, kids, we weren’t even aware of these “problems”. What is today so loud in public sphere was there, probably a lot of it under the carpet, a lot experienced in silence and loneliness, because these were not matters to be even mentioned. Here we are today. I’d risk a statement that we (adults after say their 50s) cognitively don’t know what is happening. We don’t have any reference from our own childhood.
We lived in the acceptance of what is as it is. Fate, destiny, whatever you can call it, we lived it. For sure, the content of hormone disruptors in market food was lower. And the general resiliency of kids was beyond the wildest dreams of today’s smartphone slaves. This in “developed” countries like the U.S., Canada or Europe. How kids lived (and still live) in all other places of the Earth is another level, not even available to us. They are real survivors, we have been just lucky.
In my view, the first part of life is here for us to look around and assimilate. We aren’t here to find “identity”, we have just arrived with zero knowledge of the place. Everything is strange to us. We don’t recognize sounds, well, until we find out that we get a lot of fun when we train the giants to react to our mumbling “ma” or “mum”.
“Identity” is a problem of adults who must have a clear demarcation line for friends and enemies...
read more here:
https://thepathishere.substack.com/p/mis-identifying-identity
Very informative. There's no doubt that early childhood trauma has a profound and lasting effect on people.
There seems to be an epidemic of gender dysphoria today, and I wonder - has it always been this way, but we are now more aware of it? Is it all caused by trauma. I have my doubts, especially when as many as twenty percent of young people say they are trans.
I think another factor to consider - and IMO one of the root causes - is vaccine caused brain damage. Damage to the deepest parts of the brain. The part that actually directs your thinking process, and the part that controls your endocrine system, and in turn is affected by it. The parts that make you....YOU.