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Joy Lucette Garner's avatar

I slept with my babies, and let them drink as much as they wanted to. I always knew when they'd "hit the cream" because they'd immediately get very intense about the sucking, as if they'd suddenly hit pure gold, sometimes so intense they'd be sweating to get that last drop. As they got older, they'd even put their hands into the work, much like we hand-milk a cow;-) Apparently, in the dairy industry they call this "stripping out the cream" which doesn't start flowing until after all of the "blue john" (watery) stuff has been milked out.

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SheilaB's avatar

I breastfed both my kids (in the 80s) - one for 10 months, the other for six. With the first one, we visited my French in-laws when the baby was 4 months. My mother-in-law was a midwife (sage-femme in French, but she wasn't very 'wise'). She was pissed off with me because I wouldn't follow the French protocol of hiring scales and weighing the baby before and after every feed (and giving formula if the figures didn't add up satisfactorily). I insisted I'd only weigh her once a week, as was my habit at the local baby clinic and explained that if I started giving her formula my own milk supply would lessen. She kept insisting the baby wasn't putting on enough weight, although she had normal chubby baby-thighs and was clearly perfectly healthy and lacking nothing. Although I had told her before I went over that I wasn't going to be using formula - and anyway she'd soon be starting on solids (which was recommended at 4 months then, rather than the current six - I think) - she'd bought 30 x 1kg boxes of baby milk powder and hired scales from the chemist (which I declined to use, except as above). I concluded that the function of 'madwives' in France was to turn mothers into neurotics. Nightmare holiday, when all I'd wanted to do was share the pleasure of their first grandchild. And I booked five weeks instead of the two that my husband took, in order to give them more time. A fellow 'add-on', i.e. French cousin not a blood relation of my husband, warned me that, if the MIL kept upsetting me, the baby would get what the French called 'colic', but I take to be rampant diarrhoea, since that's exactly what happened.

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