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They're quietly banking on that 'regret' not turning to rage.

We are in the world's biggest game of chicken right now.

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I have friends and family that get mad at me when I tell them that face masks are not only useless but detrimental, and that the covid jab is a bioweapon. What I won't say when they finally wake up is: see, I told you so.

Sooner or later self preservation needs to kick and we need to make these psychopaths fear for their pathetic demented lives. Not for vengeance, for self preservation.

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Jan 14·edited Jan 14Liked by Unbekoming

In 2020 and 2021 I tried to warn people, but dang, it was like talking to 10 foot thick and 100 foot tall brick wall. Or worse: they would get angry and insult me. Since 2021 I've done my utmost to get the word out by making transcripts of censored and shadow-banned testimonies, not all but many concerning jab injuries and deaths; however, since 2022 I've let the covidians in my own life alone on this. They are adults, they have agency. They can connect the dots, or not. They can forgive themselves, or not. I love them, I might dearly wish certain things for them, but it is their journey through their life, not mine. My personal opinion is that, no matter what their health status may be, if those who are finally waking up to the ugly reality can simply forgive themselves, their lives will be a lot easier. As I often say, everyone in this life has been fooled by someone over something at some time. It is my sincere wish that they may find healing and peace in their hearts.

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Jan 14·edited Jan 14Liked by Unbekoming

"Regret" vs. "remorse" english.stackexchange.com

Remorse is deeper and stronger than regret. One sense of regret is

a feeling of sadness, repentance, or disappointment over something that has happened or been done.

You may have associated regret with Italian "rimorso" because a deed was done. But regret is not limited to the above sense; it can also be used to talk about deeds that weren't done

A feeling of sadness, repentance, or disappointment over something that hasn't happened or hasn't been done.

Regret thus seems to correspond with your "rimpianto" in that, in your example, you focus on the deleterious consequences of an action (or inaction).

As well, regret may be used of acts (of commission or omission) performed by others.

Remorse addresses the speaker's moral sense of personal guilt. It is directed inward, a gnawing feeling of distress over one's own responsibility for one's own grave error—in many cases a sense of having sinned; while regret is directed outward—an unmoralized feeling of distress over the unhappy consequences of an act which may have been performed (or omitted) by anyone.

So remorse can be your rimorso if, in your example, you are using the same sense of "doing something wrong."

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2 things I do not regret (though I do regret the loss of some relationships & incredible emotional toll this has all taken on my own little life - & that more people I tried to warn were unable to listen to my warnings) are: I did try to warn people, & I didn't take the bloody thing myself. Of course I'm also sorry I did not clue in to the sick vaccine paradigm decades earlier than I did.

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Jan 14Liked by Unbekoming

So glad that we didn't get it. I tried to advise other members of my family but my brother went and got a job helping to administer the poison! I haven't been ill since 2021 when I had a cold. It might have been covid I suppose but I didn't test.

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Jan 14·edited Jan 14Liked by Unbekoming

In talking with someone who suffered from depression, I did a lot of pondering about regret. Ironically, that experience helped me understand my own.

Looking it up, I think there are two pertinent definitions:

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1) To feel sorry, disappointed, distressed, or remorseful about.

"I regret not speaking to her before she left."

2) To remember with a feeling of loss or sorrow; mourn

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I like the definition that it is a memory of something that can drive the emotions of sadness, disappointment or remorse.

All helpful emotions that keep most people out of the category of psychopath. However, I have observed in life, that regret is also often one of the most insidious of poisons. These emotions are helpful in the moment. They will hopefully drive a realization of a mistake made, but the problem arises when one can't let that emotion go. To let go of remorse and disappointment, one must forgive... ones self.

I find the word "should" often comes strongly into play here. I personally believe that the word "should" is best applied to future tense to optimize your prospects. I believe if one applies it in the most commonly seen form of "past" tense, then it drives a persistent type of regret.

If we look at the helpful purpose of the emotions of disappointment, or remorse, or sadness in the context of mistakes, they are there to drive us to better behaviour in the future. That might mean reparations, or simply better choices in similar future situations. If one is holding onto regret, I have to ask, if you make a poor decision and fail a test of life, what good does it do to double down and handicap yourself so you are less likely to make a good decision today or tomorrow?

I am almost certain that regret, along with close cousins guilt and shame, are probably the most prevalent causes of cancer and other modes of pre-mature death.

The reality is everyone screws up... all the time. Sometimes the consequences are serious and immediate. Sometimes, they are not serious at all. Sometimes they are serious, but you don't realize it until long after the decision or action is taken. Aside from some cases of immediate consequence, people are not good judges, because frankly, our memory is revisionist, especially in the presence of strong emotions. I have met very few people in my life that can effectively empathize with a past situation without being biased by information or experience they have encountered since. I believe that is why most older people have challenges relating to younger people, because they simply can't remember what it was like without having that knowledge and experience. They can't ponder what it would be like to not have the experience or knowledge they have now. I suppose it's a similar thing to what makes someone squirm when they read their own old entries in a journal.

What was very unique about the war of 2020 (I don't like propagating the notion there was a pathogenic emergency), is that the vast majority of the population was scared and manipulated into making a series of big mistakes. This drove very serious consequences, some immediate, but even worse, more long term consequences, some of which we still have yet to see. For those that gave it to their children without obvious injury (same applies to other vaccines, medical drugs, or surgery), but living with the regret and anxiety of not knowing what "might" happen in the future, I can only say this: there are a million ways mess up your kids, and I guarantee every single parent did a lot of them. Only time will enable one to judge the severity of it, but why make more bad decisions by carrying around the regret and its cousins, guilt and shame?

In the end, persistent regret leads to the same outcomes in everyone. I don't think the impact of it has as much to do with the severity of mistake, or the consequences. The real impact of it has everything to do with how long you carry it around, because if you keep drinking from it, it will poison you without a doubt.

Even those of us whose circumstances allowed us to avoid this particular wave of assault still face questions that can lead to regret. Should I have stood up and spoken louder to help others? Should I have worn the mask in the store, to reduce conflict while propagating the grand theatre and fear in others? Those questions range across a large spectrum all the way to martyrdom.

Carrying regret serves no further purpose after you've decided how you want to act in the future. It's all about those decisions. What have I decided to learn? What have I decided to do about reparations, do I owe a debt of apology or more? What have I decided I should and want to do in the future?

These choices sit in front of all of us, all the time and if we avoid making them, then we will carry regret in it's poisonous form. Once these decisions are made, the memory of the event should be limited to sadness, and it should be fleeting, hopefully followed quickly by the memory of the positive changes that it triggered.

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It ain't over till the fat lady sings, Unbecoming. Look at the abomination all our governments are about to foist on us courtesy of the WEF / WHO come May of this year.

For me, everything about "Covid" and the Lethal Injections stank -- and stinks -- to high heaven of wanton criminality and fraud almost from the start -- and as for the morons who took the Lethal Injections, demanded them of their friends and relatives at the price of shunning? They can go to Hell. Literally.

"Regret"? How about "Repent" (on their part) instead? https://captroyharkness.substack.com/p/repent

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We totally escaped the 'drug trip' pushed on everyone due to our faith, and reading of the bible which said

that my body was the TEMPLE of the HOLY SPIRIT, When looking at TEMPLES all over the world, the first

thing we notice is how CLEAN they are, gleaming, no dirt there.

I knew that 'nobody knew' and nobody would likely ever know what would happen with any strong drugs.

Even marijuana is still being studied, disputed. It might be it sort of works, perhaps, for some, and not for

others. We are UNIQUE. Thus, for sure, ONE size fits ALL must be part of 'satan's system', not 'God's'.

Only God can handle the limitedless variety we all present, and give us various natural medicines that

DO work for everybody, in different ways, but helpful.

My spouse and I, having had many respiratory problems always used that to avoid any 'shot', and

a 'shot in the dark' is certainly what it was.

We ALL have, unless it mutes, and turns off, a 'gut feeling', or 'a hunch' about everything, and

that is always onto something, leading us somewhere. While it may not be 100%, right then, we'll

be LED to what's right. We need PATIENCE. God give me patience to endure.

I wonder which is more damaging to us? Is it the drug within, or is it all the 'regret' or 'remorse' that

circles and weighs on us. Very heavy indeed, and one of the hardest things is forgiving ONESELF.

Knowing I have 'sin' or 'missing the mark' within really helps me. It does no good to berate.

The bible says that 'In Christ Jesus(Yehoshua), there IS NO condemnation', a great foundation.

There's only improvement, and growth.

I wonder how many shares Clinton, Bush, and Obama had in the 'jab'? Think they did?

Think they were personally invested?

So, if you, others, learned that 'they' aren't interested in you, but want to TAKE from you,

then aren't you on your way to a better place?

And I generally don't share any of this UNLESS people, like yourself, those here are on that path.

There are many spies walking around just like people.

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Jan 16Liked by Unbekoming

This piece hits hard, I have been dealing with own burgeoning realisation of possible childhood vaccine injury in my kids ... I was young, naive and trusted the medical system so drew a line on anything related to covid as my way of atoning.

If you’ll indulge me a minute, the thing with “regret” is that it’s only beneficial if paired with its cousin “contrition”. As I’ve now experienced over the several years of covid, almost no one on the jab-lockdown-msm bandwagon has had the courage to face their own actions, hence the media messaging remains steadfastly banal in service of maintaining people’s illusions.

Regret, guilt and resentment are a destructive triumvirate, and functional humans who have genuine emotions and empathy can use these emotions as great strengths because they are blessed with the ability to show contrition, grace and humility as they grow spiritually or psychologically from their trauma ... I genuinely no longer believe that the multiply-boosted even have the cognitive ability to go there any longer.

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Jan 14Liked by Unbekoming

What does regret and compassion mean to the "makers"? Nothing in the end. But on the other hand regret perhaps may be the first step to anger and rage. All change begins with reflection and empathic analysis. Without such things you'll stay in your dissenting but unmoved refrigerator.

When I read this mournful litany above, tears would run down my cheeks. But then thay were followed by anger and rage.

What about the "new normal"? Nothing has left normal. Nothing at all. Make this clear to everyone you can reach.

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Jan 14Liked by Unbekoming

much maligned by the irish gov http://www.regret.ie/index.html

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Peter Hotez and The Wellness Company sister organization Qu Biologics both have absolute love of Endotoxin jabs.

Looks like small error in your reference to grandma?

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I am grateful to see so much compassion mixed with the anger on this thread.

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Jan 15Liked by Unbekoming

Excellent post.

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Jan 15Liked by Unbekoming

I'll add another one. Those who didn't try hard enough to convince their loved ones not to take it. I fear a great many of us will feel this one.

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