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May 3rd 1957, a school night, my mother sent us all out to the movies. My oldest sister was already married with a 2 year old which left 5 remaining children in house. Dr Eisenhard, an old-timer, came to the house before we all left. We didn't think anything of it because he made house calls all the time when someone got sick or we all came down with measles at the same time.

He was tall, I was little, but I remember him rolling up his sleeves, going to the kitchen to wash up and then touching us all very gently to examine us. There was no such thing as herding all of us into a car for a doctor visit. He came to us. And charged my mother 2 bucks a head. I still drive by his office and his home was right across the street. Beautiful structures. He obviously made money where he could but had enormous empathy for those who had little. He even accepted baked goods for payment. He was the last of his breed in my neck of the woods.

That night we came home from the movies, ran to my mothers room to tell her about the movie, and there she was, my new sister wrapped like a papoose next to Ma. Dr Eisenhard slumped in a chair, looking exhausted, like he did all the work. I never have to think how old my nephew is. He's 2 years OLDER than his aunt. Ain't that a gas.

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Invitation: I'm going to put my fantasy out there because, who knows what may come of it. As a lifelong physically isolated "friend" of Illich, I want to reinvoke the friendship tradition of Illich. He was known to use his professorships to enable gatherings of friends where in the spirit (con-spirit-acy) of friendship they would purposefully explore and work on the concepts and issues, the big questions, in need of discussion. The influence of Illich's intellectual salons or conspiracies of friends has furthered ground-breaking intellectual work in so many domains. You have John McKnight, Barbara Duden, David Cayley, Thomas Szasz, Uwe Poerksen, Nils Christie,....

We need to add to these excellent starts that Unbekoming is offering us. We need to dig in to the big questions. What are they? What can we explore and grow of them? Just as much as Illich's definition of health presumes a responsibility and autonomy, so I see that I must limber my life from not just intellectual exposure from the armchair, but to a cultivation of being alive. In the conspiracy of company, there is for us the work we can do for ourselves and with each other, to grow what is fitting for us to grow, to expect a surprise of good which may come.

Anyone?

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